20220228 Newsletter
If we don’t know who we are, how are we going to keep trans & the Alphabet Soup from defining us. Many updated essays.
REVIEW AND LINK TO REDDIT R/GAYTRANSGUYS
This is the link to the reddit group. Please don’t go there and make comments.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/
This is my short review. I have a few links to particular transman postings that show how disconnected from the reality of Gay life of which they purport to be a part.
If you want to find transman craziness, this is the place to go, it is overflowing with delusion. However, I supply this link to inform you and not to go there and attack them.
What the reddit is good for is to have real examples of what transmen ideology is. When people claim trans don’t do this or that, this reddit shows that they do. Also, it is a good resource for others to see what the reality of transman living is.
Though you laugh at it, for those who have made irreversible changes it is a sad tragedy when they find out what the reality is.
TRANS PLANS TO POLICE GAY MEN ON THE APPS.
If we don’t know who we are, how are we going to keep trans and the Alphabet Soup from defining us?
PROGRESS ON THE GAY BOOK. CHAPTER TWO, “We are different,” IS DONE.
I am now wondering what the next chapter is. Likely it is how Gays have very low expectations and respect for themselves, and are content with being tolerated and are fearful of straight people’s opinions.
Chapter Two was published yesterday on the Substack. “We Are Different, Against Assimilation.”
WHY IS THIS BOOK IMPORTANT?
For those whose concerns are primarily the claims of the trans movement, this may not seem very pertinent to that topic. However, if we don’t have a good idea who we are, social workers and the Alphabet Soup will have a better opportunity to define who we are.
It is with the assimilationist agenda lumping us together in an Alphabet Soup of identities which provides the context for them trying to replace homosexual with homogender. Queer is an identity which stares at straightness.
Also, the Gay community is negatively impacted by the Alphabet Soup/ social worker/ neoliberal agenda in many ways. The average Gay person isn’t going to care that much about trans and if they do, with their present thinking, they will just want to go back to a social worker/neoliberal management of the Gay community which led to the problem of trans claiming Gay was homogender in the first place.
I think if the Gay community fully understands the larger negative impact, of which transmen claims are just a part of, I think there will be real opposition to neoliberal management of desire and this opposition will include rejecting claims of Gay being homogender.
UPDATED ESSAYS AND SHORTS ITEMS AT THE SUBSTACK.
I sometimes come across some item which needs to be reported in an essay or is something that would be informative to the reader so I do an update.
Some of the postings I do are meant to be developing and evolving resources, such as how to deal with transmen contacting you on the apps. If it is a major update, I likely will mention it in the Newsletter.
UPDATED ESSAY, HOW TO REACT TO TRANSMEN ON HOOK UP APPS
UPDATED: PREGNANCY AND SEX WITH “GAY” TRANSMEN – ONLINE VERSION EDITED.
This is a topic that the Alphabet Soup scolds like to omit when talking. I wrote a short item about this issue on my Substack.
I just updated it with a link to a really obnoxious article which also omits the topic of pregnancy.
https://mashable.com/article/no-trans-people-preference-transphobic
I went through it and edited some spelling errors and rough grammatical parts. Added something in about DNA testing.
OTHER PLATFORMS – Make sure you are connected in more than one way.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/473985827246638