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Daniel Blatt's avatar

Been reading you for a while without paying. When I read your stuff, I range between saying, "Yes, exactly. That nails it" and "Well, interesting perspective, but...."

Today when I read something something, just one line, it really resonated: <<The needs of Lesbians and Gays get lost in the shuffle.>>. So much in those eleven words, so much about where our gay culture is today. (Are we allowed to say that anymore, "gay culture"?)

I upgraded to paid.

What I said above invites a longer conversation. But while I don't always agree with you, what you write often sparks thoughts about the world in which we gay men live. And I want to encourage you to keep putting your thoughts out there -- and to keeping us thinking and questioning.

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Anton's avatar

I worked in colleges for about 15 years leading into Covid. There's one trend I noticed which I think is a good thing overall but might make these numbers problematic.

In the last five years (2015-2020) I overheard more than a few all male conversations the gist of which was:

Gay/straight/bi/etc. is determined by whom you DATE. If you are known to have romantic interest /date only women … you are straight. End of story. Jumping into bed with another man because you're lonely, bored, or horny IN BETWEEN (that's the key point) girlfriends isn't part of the equation.

So.... Interesting...

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