Reddit Transmen's delusions and aggressions. Part 1
It is both tragic, hilarious, and obnoxious the delusions of transmen who imagine they are Gay and angry at the Gay community.
Introduction
I decided to have pages where all the posts I have reported earlier in the weekly newsletters can be found.
These posts show their delusions, their lack of respect for Gays and our community, their attempting to appropriate the Gay community for their own purposes.
Also, it shows a great tragedy. They are colliding with the fact that though they might want to imagine themselves as Gay men, Gays won’t be having sex with them. They are colliding with the reality that men seeking to have heterosexual sex with them are going to present themselves as Bi or Pan or Gay to gain access to their bodies. (Though it seems that transmen are beginning to realize that claims of being Bi or Pan are just deceptions.)
The LGBTQXYZ media has been pushing for Gay men to have sex with transmen and it has failed. There perhaps are a few people who previously or currently claim to be Gay, Gay is a self-declared identity, and who say they would be willing to have sex with a transman, if it was the right one.
The humorous repost to Gay men show boating their LGBTQXYZ righteousness is, “Woke in the streets, Gender Critical in the Sheets.” No one is being fooled.
Transmen are finding that the reality is that Gays actually aren’t interested in sex with them.
A recurring theme in these posts is that some “Gay” person they are having sex with turns out to be basically a person seeking heterosexual sex from desperate transmen.
It might be possible that some man sincerely believes that he is Gay while having “PIV” (Penis In Vagina, a term transmen use.) sex since he has convinced himself it makes him Gay. Self-delusion is a really effective means of deceiving others.
The tragedy is that many of these transmen have taken testosterone and have had surgery and perhaps other irrevesible steps and are finding that the reality is they aren’t going to be having relations with Gay men. They are still sexually attracted to men, their heterosexual desires are still there, but there is no real prospect of them finding sexual satisfaction with Gay men. Gay men might accept them as members of their social group, but they won’t be having sex with them despite all the pressures of the LGBTQXYZ media.
The transmen hope of sex is only through those seeking them for heterosexual sex which is a denial of their self-identification as men.
The posts also reveal another aspect of transmen. They think Gay sexual relations and romance is going to be like straight peoples sexual relations and romance. They are often disappointed that Gay life isn’t like some romantic TV drama with Gay men replacing heterosexuals.
The transmen remind the author of fujoshi (rotton girls) and their BL movies and novels in their expectations. This is a genre for women of romances of two men, often times imagined to be straight. It is often very rapey, if not including rape. (See Fujimi Orchestra).
https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-japanese-women-who-love-gay-anime
In this following article, I am not so sure the author is really that concerned about Gay men, but the fact that she is upset that there are women that aren’t following her feminist ideology.
The following are the reddit posts I have had in the newsletters and post so far. New Reddit posts will be added to the top of this list.
INTRODUCTORY POSTS OF THE PAST
This was my introductory post on the topic of r/gaytransguys. The Reddit posts start after this section.
REDDIT POSTS
20220801
Straight guys deceiving transmen
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/w6e64e/boyfriend_misgendered_me_for_the_first_time/
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/w5x75j/my_fwb_accidentally_misgendered_me_in_public/
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/vvldaj/really_bad_hookup/
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/vy7bz3/misgendered_on_gay_app/
Transman finds out boyfriend has been referring to him behind his back as a girl for four years.
Turns out that a "pan" identity is a great way to fool transmen.
Deceit as a way to start a relationship. If you read the responses they think that deceit is an acceptable practice.
Transman is annoyed that Gays on the apps are horny. Wants to talk about hobbies and annoyed that sex keeps coming up as a topic.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/w32yjt/scruff_reviews/
Gays evidently think too much about sex according to this transman.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/w7d6rw/sex_trans/
Everything is about me. She doesn’t feel like she is a member of the Gay community. Maybe because she really isn’t. She defines herself as asexual and is clueless about Gay life.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/vuxhv6/i_dont_really_feel_like_a_part_of_the_gay/
Upset if you have a paraphilia for them, but they have a paraphilia for Gay men.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/vwksxy/first_hookup_with_a_gay_guy/
Hasn’t done anything to transition, she just imagines she is a man, is wondering whether on a Gay app for Gay men will she get rejected.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/w9nijz/transphobia_on_grindr/
20220718
REDDIT /GAYTRANSGUYS
This reddit is endlessly hilarious, but simultaneously tragic, and I supply some posts as a source of humor.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/vzxego/straight_mfs_on_grindr/
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/vuxhv6/i_dont_really_feel_like_a_part_of_the_gay/
22020314
TRANS ABSURDITIES
From starting to write the essay on my plan for trans reporting in this newsletter and finishing it I came across a few items. To purge them from my mind, I am going to report them to you. I am not sure what you will do to purge it from your mind.
Natal Dick: I don’t think you can go to the reddit group https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/ without finding one or two really astoundingly crazy expressions. The one I came across today is “natal dick.” Evidently there are penises you are born with and other penises you can acquire later.
It was in this posting by a commentator named vomit-gold. The post was about the fact that the transman was suspicious that his relationship with another guy wasn’t really homogender but the other guy was basically having sex with a women.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/tb1vhf/partner_is_happy_to_have_a_break_from_dicks/
I am not sure so sure that this next item is an absurdity or not. I have this as example in that we shouldn’t reflexively consider transman same gender couples thoughts absurd. This next item is about a transman couple that identities as a Gay couple is sad because they are not comfortably able to have children. First it strikes you as absurd because Gay couples don’t expect to conceive children and it is one of the great positives of Gay life, we don’t have to worry about pregnancy. Being said about not getting pregnant shows that Gay transmen are not interchangeable with “cis” Gay men and the absurdity of such an assertion.
However, for the class of homogender transmen couples, this is really a thing of their world and an issue within their world. It could be a thing for them. Considering that homogender transmen couples as a separate class this would be an entirely reasonable issue for them.
Breasts: The question asked here is, “Is it possible to have another gay man attracted to a pre-op chest” Notice the phrase “another gay man” as if a transman with breasts still intact is a Gay man.
Most of the commentators tell the transman that it isn’t an issue, but a few say it is going to be an issue. I think a lot of transmen are not realizing that the “Gay” person they have a relationship with is actually someone into transmen in their ability to function sexually as women.
First Post on this subreddit.
The following are some examples of their posts. The comments made in response are fairly interesting also.
In this post the Gay transman think Gay men think too much about cock. This is a concern since below the waste this transman has the body of a woman.
Doesn’t want to date trans and discovering the reality that Gay men don’t want to date transmen. No matter how much scolding the Alphabet Soup media does, Gay men who are really Gay men and not men who are into transmen aren’t going to date them.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/sr0x4j/fed_up_of_being_trans/
Gay transman discovers Gay men aren’t like straight men courting women. Also, showing zero comprehension of what is going on in a Gay dating app.
Not comprehending the concept of “informed consent.” Wondering how a Gay man might be fucked with a dildo prothetic without the Gay man realizing it. Thinks that perhaps since it will be done when it is “pitch black” in darkness it might be possible.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/slepdb/cruising_but_wanting_to_be_stealth_ftm_top/
Wondering if there are really “cis” Gay men who will date a transman. Respondants assure this person that there will be many. Re-inforcing each others delusions is one of the purposes of this reddit.
Decieving others is stressfull, especially since at some point you will have to tell the truth. Doesn’t tell the Gay victim that he is a transman until the plans for a date are completed.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/r3da7w/coming_out_before_each_date_can_be_stressful/
Wonders whether “cis” Gay guys will find dating a transman with breasts strange even though they are small. Planning to be a Gay transman with no surgery at all.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/qrz8is/dating_cis_gays_wout_top_surgery/
A lot of the posts are about the transmen being concerned that the supposed Gay man they meet up with is perhaps just a straight guy who has discovered that transmen are somewhat desperate. The straight guy will slip up during sex saying something that will tend to give away the deception and there will be discussion of whether it is a mistake or not.
This is a typical post where the transman realizes that it is a straight guy getting straight sex from him.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/t1s7rm/misgendered_during_sex/
Again, reading their posts you will just sometimes reel at the delusions, but DO NOT COMMENT. They aren’t interest in the reality of Gay life or realizing that they have cut off their breasts but are still attracted to men and Gay men aren’t going to be interested and only straight guys who identify them as women will be interested.
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