Reddit Transmen's delusions and aggressions Part 4
It is both tragic, hilarious, and obnoxious: the delusions of transmen who imagine they are Gay and angry at the Gay community.
Part 3 is at the link below, Link to Part 5 will be at the end when there is a Part 5.
20230102
Besides wanting to police someone else's sexuality, this post shows who is actually wanting to date a transman. Tranmen are always aghast to discover yet another straight guy who is claiming to be Bi or Pansexual and really just a straight guy looking for sex from desperate transmen.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/zwv7fc/a_pansexual_cis_guys_dating_bio_on_taimi/
Women with breasts expects to get sex from Gay men at saunas or cruising. By the way, dark rooms and dark places are no longer safe spaces. You have been warned.
20230109
I should make it clear that I am only showing posts from this subreddit related to either aggressions against Gays or when an impact to the Gay community is involved. Most of the posts are about figuring how to exist. A lot of them are sad.
The ever-repeating story. Once again finds out that the pan or bi guy isn’t having Gay sex with you, but is just a horny straight guy that wants sex from desperate “transmen.”
This guy is supposedly “bi.” This issue comes up repeatedly. Some guy is having vaginal sex with a transman and the guy is “bi” or “pan” which allows the Gay transman to think they are having Gay sex. This at some point it becomes apparent that the guy was just having heterosexual sex all along and was just telling the transman what the transman wanted to hear.
Invades a Gay sexual space and is surprised and upset by the negative Gay reaction. This is the reality. Gays in spaces for sexual gratification don’t want to see things that aren’t that of Gay men.
This is what the transman says.
Honestly don’t know what I expected from reddit. Just browsing a gay porn sub where the theme was GW Friday and a trans dude posted his dick, and I know my first mistake was thinking that the comments would be positive (because it was a really nice looking dick tbf) but no. Shouldn’t have opened the comments. “That’s not a dick” “In the most gender affirming way possible, that’s not a dick” (which is the comment that irked me the most personally) “ew I hate seeing pussy where I wasn’t expecting it” and literally everyone being positive about it was downvoted. And now I’m not even in the mood to jerk off anymore.
The other “gaytransguys” commenting on this post entirely don’t recognize that they are invading a Gay space either.
20230130
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
When you are delusional enough to think that men inserting their penis into your vagina are having Gay sex, you are easily deceived and exploited.
The issue though is that there aren’t many, if any, men seeking vagina sex with a transman who sees a transman as a man and not as a woman. In fact, they are likely to be extremely rare, and if they exist at all, have their own set of delusions. Also, this is the endless story of the transmen on Grindr, they are sought out and fooled by men seeking heterosexual sex.
This post is informative of the escalating co-evolution as predator and prey of transmen and those into transmen, i.e., straight guys looking for sex, a.k.a. “chasers.” It is sort of sad, since you can see they are the targets of persons who are looking for transmen for heterosexual sex and are pretending to be Gay or Bi or Pan and pretend to be having man-on-man sex. I feel somewhat sad for them, since in many cases they were convinced to have surgeries and take testosterone and now are realizing they are at a dead end. They were conned by gender ideologues that they would be able to become part of the Gay community and it becomes increasingly apparent they aren’t.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10o3ysg/how_do_you_tell_who_is_a_chaser_and_who_is/
(20230206)
This transman complains about women on Grindr on r/gaytransguys. Hilarious hypocrisy. I have a link to his post, but I am going to have his video before the r/gaytransguys links.
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
Upset that women are on Grindr and wants to keep it a “Gay man’s space.” Also, has comments about what the Pride event should be. Yes, the hypocrisy is obvious.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10opk8b/is_grindr_for_women_or_a_gay_mens_space/
Transmen was absolutely convinced that she was passing as a man, and finds out that maybe she wasn’t. A little bit upset that maybe it was all a delusion.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10twte1/i_got_clocked_on_a_dating_app/
Transman is attracted to transwomen, and can’t figure out how to make that Gay. Maybe, just maybe transman is just a straight woman wanting sex with men regardless of how these men might conceptualize themselves.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10twoab/is_this_fetishizing_im_confused/
Is willing to be used by a straight man for sex regardless of how it might trample the supposed “Gay” identity.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10tvz8q/hopelessly_in_love_with_a_fwb/
The eternal conflict between transmen and straight men who want sex and are learning better ways of pretending they are having homosexual sex.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10tv8mo/amazing_how_quickly/
Transman finds out that boyfriend of six years was using her for heterosexual sex all along and never as a man.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10pfm4i/broke_up_with_my_bf_of_six_years/
(20230213)
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
Not a lot to report this last week. Mostly they just stumble into the future wanting to be Gay men.
Deception by omission rationalized.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/10v2tnw/when_do_you_tell_someone_youre_trans/
In many ways the subreddit is a tragic record. However, it also documents some of the problems that Gays face from transmen claiming to be Gay men and keeps Gays informed what type of community they are dealing with.
These links are collected into posts. When one post fills up another is started. There are links from one post to the next post and the previous post.
(20230220)
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
Reading this Reddit is like watching an ongoing trainwreck as they keep colliding with the reality that real Gay men won’t have sex with them, the reality that “bi” and “pan” guys are not having man-to-man sex with them, and likely are just straight, the reality is that “chasers” are the ones interest in them. The thing about chasers is that for them they are chasing transmen as a different type of women, or just easy straight sex from desperate transmen.
This person is overjoyed at the interest shown in him with his new Grindr account, but is being advised that Grindr is full of chasers. (Are Gay men active on this anymore?)
This transman is concerned that penis in vagina isn’t really Gay sex. “Rationally i know that anatomy doesn’t change the validity of “gay sex” but sometimes the dysphoria really gets to me.” Reality keeps trying to break into her thoughts.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/115rwqz/bottom_dysphoria_and_imposter_syndrome/
(20230227)
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
Finds it irritating that people don’t share her delusions.
(20230306)
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
A lot of the posts on this subreddit are about a transman having serious doubts that they could find a Gay man that would be interested in them. They know that there will be men interested in them, but these will be men who are interested in them as women and want to have heterosexual sex and the transmen want to avoid them, since it invalidates their identity as men.
A transman will post their doubts in this subreddit about a cis Gay many ever finding them attractive, and the other members will reassure them that it is possible they will find a cis Gay guy. They will mention they have a cis-Gay person having sex it them.
However, another common post is when a transman finds out that the “Gay” man wasn’t so Gay after all. The transmen have already wised up that men who claim to be bisexual or pansexual are likely to be straight men who are trying to support a fiction that they will be having man to man sex with the transman.
In this post the transman is beginning to realize that real Gay men aren’t going to be interested and is asking about this to see what the others say. They give him propaganda.
(20230320)
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
Their hopes and fears are fairly tragic. They all think that somehow, they will find a Gay person who will have sex with them and imagine them as a man. The reality is that they constantly deal with straight men who have a thing for transmen for heterosexual sex, and they will never be accepted as sexual partners by Gay men. Many of the posts ask for moral support because they are beginning to realize that and they work to prop up each other’s delusions.
Grindr doesn’t work for this transman and her expectations of heterosexual romance, so no one should use it. Because the transman isn’t able to use Gay men for his/her purposes, no one should use it, including Gays.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/11s03fm/stop_using_grindr/
Built like an attractive woman with an “hourglass frame,” pre-op and Gays don’t want to sleep with me. Reality is so cruel.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/11ro03l/preop_hookup_blues/
Upset that Grindr isn’t like heterosexual romance.
Turns out that deceit isn’t popular on Grindr.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/11qqrtv/question_for_grindr_users/
Transman upset that on Grindr he is unable to remain in the closet as a transman despite obviously being obvious.
Realizing that maybe the men interested in her are interested in her as a woman only.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/11nyuc4/red_flag/
Having a collision with reality.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/11lg1om/i_feel_like_im_not_allowed_to_be_a_gay_man/
This is a never-ending story in this sub-reddit. The person they are having a relation with accidently reveals that it isn’t a msm relationship, but in reality, it was heterosexuality.
Transman worries about getting pregnant. Transman still thinks that at some point he will be able to be in the Gay community as a Gay man.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/11kf7hj/bottom_dysphoria_and_18_relations/
(20230327)
R/GAYTRANSGUYS
This post recommends a guide to “Gay” transmen which includes getting sex without informed consent. I have my review of this guide in a post at the end of this newsletter.
In this following post the transman deceives and hasn’t figured out that his intended victim figured it out. The transman states, “I hadn’t come out to him as trans.” Obviously he figured it out and moved on. Tried to spare the transman’s feeling with an explanation that they didn’t have “chemistry.” Transman isn’t facing up to the reality that Gays aren’t going to have sex with transmen.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/120311z/venting_about_a_failed_relationship/
Reality is so very cruel to the following transman. Don’t tell transmen what you are thinking.
(4/3/2023)
The reality of being a supposed Gay transman is that you attract men you are exclusively interested in you for heterosexual sex. This is the endlessly repeating complaint of “Gay” transmen.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/12596k0/isolated/
“Gay” Trans “man” is uncomfortable when boyfriend goes down on “his” vagina.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/125wn8j/uncomfy_w_my_bf_going_down_on_me/
The concept of informed consent, a bedrock principle of ethics, is lacking with some transmen as revealed with this question and some of the comments. Some do make sure it is in their profile, because they realize that hiding this info doesn’t work well. Also, it shows them as basically straight women trying a Gay app. For example, this comment, “I personally don’t use Grindr anymore, since it is really only a hookup app these days.” Was Grindr ever anything but a hookup app.
This transman wants help in fooling themselves that this guy basically will say what the transman wants to hear to get sex.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/12915se/ill_see_you_as_whatever_you_want_me_to/
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